"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Accountability partner

OlympicTim

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Hey guys one thing ive noticed is I always do better when I have someone to keep me accountable.

Im looking for a dude preferably someone my ageish (19) just starting out to keep each other accountable and push and coach each other.

Let me know if anyone is interested
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dustmuffin

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I am interested Tim. I'm not your age, but I don't see that as a hindrance. I am trying to start lifting on a regular basis. I am giving myself six months of work on myself before I go out and date. I need it because I just got dumped. I am 52.
 

OlympicTim

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Im thinking we could do a skype meet up or something every week or so. Just anyone who is avilable or interested sits down and talks about their success and failures and what they are doing to improve
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mrgoodstuff

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dustmuffin said:
I am interested Tim. I'm not your age, but I don't see that as a hindrance. I am trying to start lifting on a regular basis. I am giving myself six months of work on myself before I go out and date. I need it because I just got dumped. I am 52.
Dude trust me. The best thing you can do for yourself is to get some pu$$y. You do not have to date. Getting new pu$$y will allow you to drop the ex much quicker and you also gain external validation.
 

OlympicTim

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Yeah we need to hammer out some details I feel like monday nights might work best anyone who is in shoot me a message
 

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Having an accountability partner is a great idea. It has helped me really improve in my execution and development of the infamous cold approach
 

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Anyone looking for an accountability partner? Hit me up.
 
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