"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Accountability partner

OlympicTim

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Hey guys one thing ive noticed is I always do better when I have someone to keep me accountable.

Im looking for a dude preferably someone my ageish (19) just starting out to keep each other accountable and push and coach each other.

Let me know if anyone is interested
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dustmuffin

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I am interested Tim. I'm not your age, but I don't see that as a hindrance. I am trying to start lifting on a regular basis. I am giving myself six months of work on myself before I go out and date. I need it because I just got dumped. I am 52.
 

OlympicTim

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Im thinking we could do a skype meet up or something every week or so. Just anyone who is avilable or interested sits down and talks about their success and failures and what they are doing to improve
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mrgoodstuff

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dustmuffin said:
I am interested Tim. I'm not your age, but I don't see that as a hindrance. I am trying to start lifting on a regular basis. I am giving myself six months of work on myself before I go out and date. I need it because I just got dumped. I am 52.
Dude trust me. The best thing you can do for yourself is to get some pu$$y. You do not have to date. Getting new pu$$y will allow you to drop the ex much quicker and you also gain external validation.
 

OlympicTim

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Yeah we need to hammer out some details I feel like monday nights might work best anyone who is in shoot me a message
 

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Having an accountability partner is a great idea. It has helped me really improve in my execution and development of the infamous cold approach
 

yun-j

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Anyone looking for an accountability partner? Hit me up.
 
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