"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Accountability partner

OlympicTim

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Hey guys one thing ive noticed is I always do better when I have someone to keep me accountable.

Im looking for a dude preferably someone my ageish (19) just starting out to keep each other accountable and push and coach each other.

Let me know if anyone is interested
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dustmuffin

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I am interested Tim. I'm not your age, but I don't see that as a hindrance. I am trying to start lifting on a regular basis. I am giving myself six months of work on myself before I go out and date. I need it because I just got dumped. I am 52.
 

OlympicTim

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Im thinking we could do a skype meet up or something every week or so. Just anyone who is avilable or interested sits down and talks about their success and failures and what they are doing to improve
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mrgoodstuff

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dustmuffin said:
I am interested Tim. I'm not your age, but I don't see that as a hindrance. I am trying to start lifting on a regular basis. I am giving myself six months of work on myself before I go out and date. I need it because I just got dumped. I am 52.
Dude trust me. The best thing you can do for yourself is to get some pu$$y. You do not have to date. Getting new pu$$y will allow you to drop the ex much quicker and you also gain external validation.
 

OlympicTim

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Yeah we need to hammer out some details I feel like monday nights might work best anyone who is in shoot me a message
 

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Having an accountability partner is a great idea. It has helped me really improve in my execution and development of the infamous cold approach
 

yun-j

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Anyone looking for an accountability partner? Hit me up.
 
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