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Yeah. I would only do 2 sets of deads, but they always kicked my ass.[S]alvatore said:Did you follow the minimalist RPT LeanGains style routine?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yeah. I would only do 2 sets of deads, but they always kicked my ass.[S]alvatore said:Did you follow the minimalist RPT LeanGains style routine?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i know how that feels man, its like you just wanna stare at a wall, or just sit in a corner.at these times i just go and eat something that i like, it really helps.Had a really rough week, hence why I haven't posted in 6 days. No motivation to train or do anything, wasn't even going to train today.
switch said:its all about metabolic/biological individuality i guess.
Yep. I just want to sit and do nothing, literally nothing. Not eat, play games or watch TV, sex drive is shot.switch said:i know how that feels man, its like you just wanna stare at a wall, or just sit in a corner.at these times i just go and eat something that i like, it really helps.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah, I've never tried them before. Once the first 2 weeks are up, I might do overhead squats (haven't done them before either). But then after the next 2 week cycle I'm going to do Zerchers.switch said:first routine that advocates zerchers.awesome.
switch said:turkish get ups are used mostly by celebrities, but ive never tried them before.should do them next time.
They're good for your core/obliques. Have you read any of Pavel Tsatsouline's stuff?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
James Blunt or Maroon 5 perhaps.switch said:i know how that feels man, the best way to psyche yourself up is to listen to some proper music like deathcore or whatever makes you feel like raping asshats and killing small animals.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
hahhahaha LMAO yeah, everytime i see someone l listening to maroonfag i feel like burying a hatchet down their skull. :crackup:The Simple Man said:James Blunt or Maroon 5 perhaps.![]()
Yeah, I'm losing interest in training altogether, and it's probably the only thing that I still enjoy doing. I don't even get that endorphin rush after I finish anymore. Just need to keep plugging away.Purefilth said:Just cos you werent feeling it doesnt mean drop the weight on every exercize?!?!
Continue as normal or even Raise the weight a little and grind through anyway. Theres that euphoric feeling afterwards. Trust me. Thats why I train legs hard on days i dont even wanna lift. Just to get that Finishers High.![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.