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Yeah. I would only do 2 sets of deads, but they always kicked my ass.[S]alvatore said:Did you follow the minimalist RPT LeanGains style routine?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeah. I would only do 2 sets of deads, but they always kicked my ass.[S]alvatore said:Did you follow the minimalist RPT LeanGains style routine?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i know how that feels man, its like you just wanna stare at a wall, or just sit in a corner.at these times i just go and eat something that i like, it really helps.Had a really rough week, hence why I haven't posted in 6 days. No motivation to train or do anything, wasn't even going to train today.
switch said:its all about metabolic/biological individuality i guess.
Yep. I just want to sit and do nothing, literally nothing. Not eat, play games or watch TV, sex drive is shot.switch said:i know how that feels man, its like you just wanna stare at a wall, or just sit in a corner.at these times i just go and eat something that i like, it really helps.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yeah, I've never tried them before. Once the first 2 weeks are up, I might do overhead squats (haven't done them before either). But then after the next 2 week cycle I'm going to do Zerchers.switch said:first routine that advocates zerchers.awesome.
switch said:turkish get ups are used mostly by celebrities, but ive never tried them before.should do them next time.
They're good for your core/obliques. Have you read any of Pavel Tsatsouline's stuff?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
James Blunt or Maroon 5 perhaps.switch said:i know how that feels man, the best way to psyche yourself up is to listen to some proper music like deathcore or whatever makes you feel like raping asshats and killing small animals.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
hahhahaha LMAO yeah, everytime i see someone l listening to maroonfag i feel like burying a hatchet down their skull. :crackup:The Simple Man said:James Blunt or Maroon 5 perhaps.![]()
Yeah, I'm losing interest in training altogether, and it's probably the only thing that I still enjoy doing. I don't even get that endorphin rush after I finish anymore. Just need to keep plugging away.Purefilth said:Just cos you werent feeling it doesnt mean drop the weight on every exercize?!?!
Continue as normal or even Raise the weight a little and grind through anyway. Theres that euphoric feeling afterwards. Trust me. Thats why I train legs hard on days i dont even wanna lift. Just to get that Finishers High.![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.