"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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According to women , the need of validation does not equal to having low self esteem

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Women say that the need of validation does not equal to having a low self esteem .

I find this extremely funny :)
Validation does not look a singular way and is not given singularly, there is a swathing variance of it to the point where it is difficult to track.

One of the biggest prompts of modern feminism is being validated, or at least feel validated through a title, this title becomes her ship for accessing validation.

Her validation isn't for us, when we validate her, she wants to prospect.

Furthermore, validation is far to accessible to women, it's become a crutch that will always be there, but because of that, when it is not there, it leaves a void and that void is where all the goods are at for us.
 

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Women say that the need of validation does not equal to having a low self esteem .

I find this extremely funny :)
When women talk they're just expressing their emotions. Most of the time they don't really know anything about the subject that they're talking about.
 

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When women talk they're just expressing their emotions. Most of the time they don't really know anything about the subject that they're talking about.
yes they chat complete sh*t,

I remember when I split with an LTR back in my blue pill days, I thought the pimp i spoke to was a woman hater when he said:

"vanish on her she will be validating herself on your D8ck in no time"

the women i spoke to said "send her flowers and apologise"

Ill leave you to figure whos advice worked and whos gave me more pain
 

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yes they chat complete sh*t,

I remember when I split with an LTR back in my blue pill days, I thought the pimp i spoke to was a woman hater when he said:

"vanish on her she will be validating herself on your D8ck in no time"

the women i spoke to said "send her flowers and apologise"

Ill leave you to figure whos advice worked and whos gave me more pain
Hhhh always ask pimps for advice, not women.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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