"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
According to women , the need of validation does not equal to having low self esteem
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Validation does not look a singular way and is not given singularly, there is a swathing variance of it to the point where it is difficult to track.Women say that the need of validation does not equal to having a low self esteem .
I find this extremely funny
One of the biggest prompts of modern feminism is being validated, or at least feel validated through a title, this title becomes her ship for accessing validation.
Her validation isn't for us, when we validate her, she wants to prospect.
Furthermore, validation is far to accessible to women, it's become a crutch that will always be there, but because of that, when it is not there, it leaves a void and that void is where all the goods are at for us.
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When women talk they're just expressing their emotions. Most of the time they don't really know anything about the subject that they're talking about.Women say that the need of validation does not equal to having a low self esteem .
I find this extremely funny
yes they chat complete sh*t,
I remember when I split with an LTR back in my blue pill days, I thought the pimp i spoke to was a woman hater when he said:
"vanish on her she will be validating herself on your D8ck in no time"
the women i spoke to said "send her flowers and apologise"
Ill leave you to figure whos advice worked and whos gave me more pain
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Hhhh always ask pimps for advice, not women.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.