"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Accidentally hit on a girl

The Sperminator

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I saw a girl at my school and I thought it was one of my friends so I came up behind her and tapped her on her shoulder and turned away like it wasn't me. But when I looked over and it wasn't my friend lol. It was a girl I've never seen before. I thought it was my friend bc she looked kind of like her plus I only saw her from behind. So I thought fast and was like oh hey how you doing. And she just started laughing. Then we talked for a while and I got her number. I don't know if this is a good pick up or not but I might try it again lol. Probably won't work again though I think I just got lucky.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HMMMMM Interesting

I actually like it. In a particular situation, I can see this working again.
 

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wow...i think you accidently found a new opener!...im going to try that!
 

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I think it all depends on the girl. The girl was really friendly so it worked. But I can totally seeing this backfire if you do it on the wrong type of girl. I'm going to try it again and I'll see what happens. Let me know if it works for you guys.
 
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This tells you that a friendly non-threatening approach is the best and most welcoming approach!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Probably won't work again though I think I just got lucky.
Good job, yet, this is a very bad mind-set.

Thinking that it was luck that got you the girl, obviously there was something about you that she is attracted to.

You are already hesitaiting if the next pickup using this method will work, thinking this is a dealbreaker.

You are the prize, she was the one that got lucky.
 
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