"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Accidentally hit on a girl

The Sperminator

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I saw a girl at my school and I thought it was one of my friends so I came up behind her and tapped her on her shoulder and turned away like it wasn't me. But when I looked over and it wasn't my friend lol. It was a girl I've never seen before. I thought it was my friend bc she looked kind of like her plus I only saw her from behind. So I thought fast and was like oh hey how you doing. And she just started laughing. Then we talked for a while and I got her number. I don't know if this is a good pick up or not but I might try it again lol. Probably won't work again though I think I just got lucky.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HMMMMM Interesting

I actually like it. In a particular situation, I can see this working again.
 

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wow...i think you accidently found a new opener!...im going to try that!
 

The Sperminator

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I think it all depends on the girl. The girl was really friendly so it worked. But I can totally seeing this backfire if you do it on the wrong type of girl. I'm going to try it again and I'll see what happens. Let me know if it works for you guys.
 
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This tells you that a friendly non-threatening approach is the best and most welcoming approach!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Probably won't work again though I think I just got lucky.
Good job, yet, this is a very bad mind-set.

Thinking that it was luck that got you the girl, obviously there was something about you that she is attracted to.

You are already hesitaiting if the next pickup using this method will work, thinking this is a dealbreaker.

You are the prize, she was the one that got lucky.
 
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