"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Accidentally hit on a girl

The Sperminator

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I saw a girl at my school and I thought it was one of my friends so I came up behind her and tapped her on her shoulder and turned away like it wasn't me. But when I looked over and it wasn't my friend lol. It was a girl I've never seen before. I thought it was my friend bc she looked kind of like her plus I only saw her from behind. So I thought fast and was like oh hey how you doing. And she just started laughing. Then we talked for a while and I got her number. I don't know if this is a good pick up or not but I might try it again lol. Probably won't work again though I think I just got lucky.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dongfu

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HMMMMM Interesting

I actually like it. In a particular situation, I can see this working again.
 

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wow...i think you accidently found a new opener!...im going to try that!
 

The Sperminator

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I think it all depends on the girl. The girl was really friendly so it worked. But I can totally seeing this backfire if you do it on the wrong type of girl. I'm going to try it again and I'll see what happens. Let me know if it works for you guys.
 
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This tells you that a friendly non-threatening approach is the best and most welcoming approach!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Probably won't work again though I think I just got lucky.
Good job, yet, this is a very bad mind-set.

Thinking that it was luck that got you the girl, obviously there was something about you that she is attracted to.

You are already hesitaiting if the next pickup using this method will work, thinking this is a dealbreaker.

You are the prize, she was the one that got lucky.
 
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