Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Accessories?

dav27

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After watching a bit of the new PUA season the idea of accessories came to mind, i don't really wear any right now.

How important do you think they are/what do you wear?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Important ???!!!

There's those that look good on you and those that don't. Period

What are you talking about exactly ?

Oooh, attraction wise...

Well, are you into girls that like men who wear a lot of jewelry ?
If yes, then it's important that you wear some kick ass stuff
If no, Then it depends whether you like wearing them or not

Myself i like wide leather bracelet, tribal rings (thin ones; short fingers lol) necklaces aren't my thing but i wear a silver bracelet with my initials in hiroglyphs. I like accessories, can't seem to find any for males tho
 

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accessories/peacocking aint that important in my book but good if you have some AA and need something to get the ball rolling.

Occasionally, I have a peacock item when I go out, which usually revolves around my long hair, for example,

-sunglasses at night(pretty douchey), they usually rest on my head though, and are awesome for that "locking-in" thing mystery uses the boa for in the latest episode

-headband rambo/rocker style. For some reason people love to comment on this sh1t.

-scrunchy, it is extremely girly and lame, but fkn girls opened me sh1tloads the few times I did this.
 

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they add character
i try keep it simple one neckalce or wrist band every now and then
i hate trying to overlaod on accessories, looks to... tryhard?
 

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They're not really that important. Sometimes you will have girls open you because of them though. I've always loved jewelry, so I naturally have a pretty mean "accessory game".

I love rings, so I wear alot of them. I also have a few bracelets, metal, leather cuffs, etc. As far as necklaces, I have a ton, more than enough to match any situation. They range from a silver figaro chain to string macrame necklaces and a chain maille necklace (most of them I made myself).

By far there are two that I've received the most comments on. One is a titanium pinky ring. Girls tend to ask about it when I wear it by itself. Comments have ranged from "Nice ring" to "Do you think you're a pimp/player?". The other is actually a girls ring that I got from my girlfriends best friend. It's a thin mood ring with little flowers emblems spaced around the ring. Girls tend to notice it alot (I just recently got it) and always want to know the story behind it.

So accessories can be helpful, but it has to be something that matches your personality and style. Just make sure you don't wear that fake "bling" crap I see so many people wearing. If you're going to wear stuff like that, at least get quality stuff. It's hard to look cool when your fake "bling" is leaving a green circle around your neck/wrist.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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