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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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After watching a bit of the new PUA season the idea of accessories came to mind, i don't really wear any right now.

How important do you think they are/what do you wear?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Important ???!!!

There's those that look good on you and those that don't. Period

What are you talking about exactly ?

Oooh, attraction wise...

Well, are you into girls that like men who wear a lot of jewelry ?
If yes, then it's important that you wear some kick ass stuff
If no, Then it depends whether you like wearing them or not

Myself i like wide leather bracelet, tribal rings (thin ones; short fingers lol) necklaces aren't my thing but i wear a silver bracelet with my initials in hiroglyphs. I like accessories, can't seem to find any for males tho
 

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accessories/peacocking aint that important in my book but good if you have some AA and need something to get the ball rolling.

Occasionally, I have a peacock item when I go out, which usually revolves around my long hair, for example,

-sunglasses at night(pretty douchey), they usually rest on my head though, and are awesome for that "locking-in" thing mystery uses the boa for in the latest episode

-headband rambo/rocker style. For some reason people love to comment on this sh1t.

-scrunchy, it is extremely girly and lame, but fkn girls opened me sh1tloads the few times I did this.
 

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they add character
i try keep it simple one neckalce or wrist band every now and then
i hate trying to overlaod on accessories, looks to... tryhard?
 

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They're not really that important. Sometimes you will have girls open you because of them though. I've always loved jewelry, so I naturally have a pretty mean "accessory game".

I love rings, so I wear alot of them. I also have a few bracelets, metal, leather cuffs, etc. As far as necklaces, I have a ton, more than enough to match any situation. They range from a silver figaro chain to string macrame necklaces and a chain maille necklace (most of them I made myself).

By far there are two that I've received the most comments on. One is a titanium pinky ring. Girls tend to ask about it when I wear it by itself. Comments have ranged from "Nice ring" to "Do you think you're a pimp/player?". The other is actually a girls ring that I got from my girlfriends best friend. It's a thin mood ring with little flowers emblems spaced around the ring. Girls tend to notice it alot (I just recently got it) and always want to know the story behind it.

So accessories can be helpful, but it has to be something that matches your personality and style. Just make sure you don't wear that fake "bling" crap I see so many people wearing. If you're going to wear stuff like that, at least get quality stuff. It's hard to look cool when your fake "bling" is leaving a green circle around your neck/wrist.
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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