"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Accessories?

dav27

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After watching a bit of the new PUA season the idea of accessories came to mind, i don't really wear any right now.

How important do you think they are/what do you wear?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Important ???!!!

There's those that look good on you and those that don't. Period

What are you talking about exactly ?

Oooh, attraction wise...

Well, are you into girls that like men who wear a lot of jewelry ?
If yes, then it's important that you wear some kick ass stuff
If no, Then it depends whether you like wearing them or not

Myself i like wide leather bracelet, tribal rings (thin ones; short fingers lol) necklaces aren't my thing but i wear a silver bracelet with my initials in hiroglyphs. I like accessories, can't seem to find any for males tho
 

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accessories/peacocking aint that important in my book but good if you have some AA and need something to get the ball rolling.

Occasionally, I have a peacock item when I go out, which usually revolves around my long hair, for example,

-sunglasses at night(pretty douchey), they usually rest on my head though, and are awesome for that "locking-in" thing mystery uses the boa for in the latest episode

-headband rambo/rocker style. For some reason people love to comment on this sh1t.

-scrunchy, it is extremely girly and lame, but fkn girls opened me sh1tloads the few times I did this.
 

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they add character
i try keep it simple one neckalce or wrist band every now and then
i hate trying to overlaod on accessories, looks to... tryhard?
 

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They're not really that important. Sometimes you will have girls open you because of them though. I've always loved jewelry, so I naturally have a pretty mean "accessory game".

I love rings, so I wear alot of them. I also have a few bracelets, metal, leather cuffs, etc. As far as necklaces, I have a ton, more than enough to match any situation. They range from a silver figaro chain to string macrame necklaces and a chain maille necklace (most of them I made myself).

By far there are two that I've received the most comments on. One is a titanium pinky ring. Girls tend to ask about it when I wear it by itself. Comments have ranged from "Nice ring" to "Do you think you're a pimp/player?". The other is actually a girls ring that I got from my girlfriends best friend. It's a thin mood ring with little flowers emblems spaced around the ring. Girls tend to notice it alot (I just recently got it) and always want to know the story behind it.

So accessories can be helpful, but it has to be something that matches your personality and style. Just make sure you don't wear that fake "bling" crap I see so many people wearing. If you're going to wear stuff like that, at least get quality stuff. It's hard to look cool when your fake "bling" is leaving a green circle around your neck/wrist.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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