Abundance or Scarcity?

[Plinco]

Say, if I maxed out in looks and game, what does that look like with the 18 to 25 demographic at age 40? I'm 37 now. I want to see what the experiences of others have taught them and any insights.

 

[Plinco]

40+ has alot to do with how you are aging as a man. Its all about you and abundance for 1 guy is a bit different then the next. Question is kinda vauge

Say I look good, like early 30's. My hormone levels are still pretty high, like the free T levels of a man in his late 20's

 

[MissouriMark]

But aren't you still married?

 

[Bigpapa]

Say I look good, like early 30's. My hormone levels are still pretty high, like the free T levels of a man in his late 20's

you will have also to play the status game a bit

looks and stuff alone doesn’t guarantee a lot of success when The age gap becomes bigger and bigger

try to copy gianluca vachi

 

[Plinco]

But aren't you still married?

Long story

 

[Plinco]

try to copy gianluca vachi

Just googled the dude it I thought it was hilarious.

 

[Bigpapa]

Just googled the dude it I thought it was hilarious.

Ok , that guy is extremely wealthy and so on . But you can still copy his style till an extent , his youth ness , and hopefully you will put the work towards having a good lifestyle upper middle class towards premium

 

[Black Widow Void]

But aren't you still married?

Long story

Looking for insights?
If your response to a black and white question is to reply in a womanspeak manner ... in addition to adopting a woman's mentality/justification for your own upcoming actions, I'm thinking that you have more work to do on yourself.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Super easy to bang young chicks if you're over 40, in good shape, *have game*, some $, and are decent looking. They're turned on by the attitude and maturity and being with an "older man."

 

[Plinco]

Looking for insights?
If your response to a black and white question is to reply in a womanspeak manner ... in addition to adopting a woman's mentality/justification for your own upcoming actions, I'm thinking that you have more work to do on yourself.

I've made a whole thread on that very subject. I am as transparent as could be here:

Why do I not find my wife attractive?

I don't find my wife sexually attractive. Been married for over a year and have not had sex, not because she didn't want it, but because I did not want to do it with her. There's nothing wrong with the way she looks, but she does not have any confidence in the way she looks (body issues) and I...

www.sosuave.net

That's the long story, no women speak about it.

 

[Plinco]

I think I need to be more specific.

I can max out on internal game pretty easily, I can get pretty close to maxing out on external game (social skills) pretty well.

I plan on doing cold approaches at the mall and at college football games, and other places.

 

[BadBoy89]

Super easy to bang young chicks if you're over 40, in good shape, *have game*, some $, and are decent looking. They're turned on by the attitude and maturity and being with an "older man."

Man some of you guys are real optimists.

I’m over 40, decent shape, I flirt with the best of them, look ok, have money, but I’m not “6’1”

Asked a 27 year old out -> she said go to hell
Asked a 29 year old out -> she said only as friends as she can order whatever she wants.
Asked a 46 year old out -> she said yes in 17 seconds

Rock on!

 

[Dash Riprock]

Man some of you guys are real optimists.

I’m over 40, decent shape, I flirt with the best of them, look ok, have money, but I’m not “6’1”

Asked a 27 year old out -> she said go to hell
Asked a 29 year old out -> she said only as friends as she can order whatever she wants.
Asked a 46 year old out -> she said yes in 17 seconds

Rock on!

I'm 5'8.

 

[Plinco]

Hmmm, what can I do to answer this question a bit better...

I'm 5'10'', or 5'11'' in shoes. I'm getting my muscle weight back, I'll probably be 165 or 170 by the middle of next year. My internal game is pretty good, my external game (social skills) needs some work, but I think I can pull it off decently.

I've thought about exclusively doing cold approaches.

 

[Mike32ct]

Plinco, how is your hair?

Your height is ok. Definitely put the muscle (or more muscle) on though. It’s more critical for guys under 6’.

 

[Plinco]

Plinco, how is your hair?

Thick and fluffy, like an anti-social Einstein. I have red hair.

 

[Plinco]

Let me ask another question: What would a 40 year old man have, think, and act to have an abundance of attention from 18 to 25 year old women?

 

[Pandora]

So I am basically your age. It is scarcity unless you work with them. Or you have some club organization which you come into constant contact with them. You will have an advantage over the slightly younger guys because your game will be more refined. Please keep yourself in immaculate shape because at our age we have to take every advantage that we can get.

 

[Plinco]

Please keep yourself in immaculate shape because at our age we have to take ever advantage that we can get.

Oh yeah for sure. That of course effects everything.

For those young lurkers on here, when you approach 40, or maybe before that, you'll realize that you took your physique for granted. That level of energy you have in your 20's is something that you have to work to maintain when you get past 35.

 

[Plinco]

I'm I the only person interested in this topic or is the answer too obvious?