BackInTheGame78
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Had an interesting thing happen with a woman I went on a date with early last week. She texted me the day after saying how much fun she had, blah blah and then we exchanged a few messages. She sent me a message around 8pm that I didn't respond to until the next day in the afternoon because I was on a date and I got busy the next morning. This woman is a solid 7. Cute face, nice body. Pretty sure she has dudes chasing her all the time.
Didn't hear back from her. So I just left her alone and focused on other women. Late Sunday night I get a text:
Her: BG78, can I ask you a question?
I was already asleep when she sent it so I responded the next morning.
Me: Sure but I may or may not answer it(with a smirk face)
Her: Lol...were you or are you interested in me?
Me: Yes
Her: Wow. I am a little surprised to hear that.
Me: Oh...why is that?
Her: Because I haven't really heard much from you. I was confused.
Me: It was a busy week for me and since texting is like tennis, if I hit the ball to you, I simply wait for you to hit it back.
Her: Blah blah blah...I really had a great time with you, are you free to get together again sometime soon?
She also admitted that she had been thinking about why she hadn't heard back from me all week and she couldn't take it anymore because it was driving her crazy and had to reach out to me to find out because she said normally guys will text her a bunch of times in a row if she doesn't respond.
Long story short she invited me over to cook dinner Thursday night. Pretty sure sausage is going to be on the menu after dinner for her.
Moral of the story? Don't get desperate or needy. If a woman doesn't respond simply wait her out. If she is interested enough she will get back to you. In this case doing nothing ended up getting her hamster wheel spinning like crazy because it was the complete opposite of what most guys do. And when a woman is thinking about you that much she can't be thinking about other guys.
Didn't hear back from her. So I just left her alone and focused on other women. Late Sunday night I get a text:
Her: BG78, can I ask you a question?
I was already asleep when she sent it so I responded the next morning.
Me: Sure but I may or may not answer it(with a smirk face)
Her: Lol...were you or are you interested in me?
Me: Yes
Her: Wow. I am a little surprised to hear that.
Me: Oh...why is that?
Her: Because I haven't really heard much from you. I was confused.
Me: It was a busy week for me and since texting is like tennis, if I hit the ball to you, I simply wait for you to hit it back.
Her: Blah blah blah...I really had a great time with you, are you free to get together again sometime soon?
She also admitted that she had been thinking about why she hadn't heard back from me all week and she couldn't take it anymore because it was driving her crazy and had to reach out to me to find out because she said normally guys will text her a bunch of times in a row if she doesn't respond.
Long story short she invited me over to cook dinner Thursday night. Pretty sure sausage is going to be on the menu after dinner for her.
Moral of the story? Don't get desperate or needy. If a woman doesn't respond simply wait her out. If she is interested enough she will get back to you. In this case doing nothing ended up getting her hamster wheel spinning like crazy because it was the complete opposite of what most guys do. And when a woman is thinking about you that much she can't be thinking about other guys.