"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Where to start where to start where to start...

I'm a 16 year old in Perth, Western Australia. I go to high school but I'm on holidays at the moment thank **** for christmas. My family doesn't actually celebrate christmas because we're non-practicing Jews.

When I was in primary school I was the fat kid. Not just a fat kid. I was the one the other heavy kids called fat. As a consequence I became very shy and withdrawn. It was that way into high school until I started going to the gym in year 8 and lost a lot of weight. I trained really hard with a kid in the year above and went from 80+ kilos to 64. I never weighed myself since I was always ashamed to but now I wish I did so I could know the progress I made. Trust me, it's been a lot!

I'm going into year 12 next year. It's my final year! I'm looking forward to making it the best year of my life. I'm 176cm and weigh 75 kilos now, it's mostly muscle. Everyone at school knows me for my abs these days so that's my nick name. Even though I have the body now though I really want to get the girls! I'm still so shy. I've kissed two girls in my life and they were both EASY. They came up to me and basically just grabbed me to make out at parties.

I really want to get the confidence and learn how to get girls. I'm willing to work hard, just like I did with my body. I'm in this to win!

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm guessing this is you're journal. If so, great start.
A few suggestions: let us know some your interests and hobbies, outline some goals of yours (long-term and short term) and maybe even some things you'd like to improve about yourself (other than general statements, something specific that can be improved).

If this isn't a journal, then just ignore the top and accept my welcome to the SS forums.
 
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No I don't, I know everyone who does though. I wish I did. There's a lot of hot girls there, but I live nowhere near it :(
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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