"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Where to start where to start where to start...

I'm a 16 year old in Perth, Western Australia. I go to high school but I'm on holidays at the moment thank **** for christmas. My family doesn't actually celebrate christmas because we're non-practicing Jews.

When I was in primary school I was the fat kid. Not just a fat kid. I was the one the other heavy kids called fat. As a consequence I became very shy and withdrawn. It was that way into high school until I started going to the gym in year 8 and lost a lot of weight. I trained really hard with a kid in the year above and went from 80+ kilos to 64. I never weighed myself since I was always ashamed to but now I wish I did so I could know the progress I made. Trust me, it's been a lot!

I'm going into year 12 next year. It's my final year! I'm looking forward to making it the best year of my life. I'm 176cm and weigh 75 kilos now, it's mostly muscle. Everyone at school knows me for my abs these days so that's my nick name. Even though I have the body now though I really want to get the girls! I'm still so shy. I've kissed two girls in my life and they were both EASY. They came up to me and basically just grabbed me to make out at parties.

I really want to get the confidence and learn how to get girls. I'm willing to work hard, just like I did with my body. I'm in this to win!

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm guessing this is you're journal. If so, great start.
A few suggestions: let us know some your interests and hobbies, outline some goals of yours (long-term and short term) and maybe even some things you'd like to improve about yourself (other than general statements, something specific that can be improved).

If this isn't a journal, then just ignore the top and accept my welcome to the SS forums.
 
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No I don't, I know everyone who does though. I wish I did. There's a lot of hot girls there, but I live nowhere near it :(
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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