"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Where to start where to start where to start...

I'm a 16 year old in Perth, Western Australia. I go to high school but I'm on holidays at the moment thank **** for christmas. My family doesn't actually celebrate christmas because we're non-practicing Jews.

When I was in primary school I was the fat kid. Not just a fat kid. I was the one the other heavy kids called fat. As a consequence I became very shy and withdrawn. It was that way into high school until I started going to the gym in year 8 and lost a lot of weight. I trained really hard with a kid in the year above and went from 80+ kilos to 64. I never weighed myself since I was always ashamed to but now I wish I did so I could know the progress I made. Trust me, it's been a lot!

I'm going into year 12 next year. It's my final year! I'm looking forward to making it the best year of my life. I'm 176cm and weigh 75 kilos now, it's mostly muscle. Everyone at school knows me for my abs these days so that's my nick name. Even though I have the body now though I really want to get the girls! I'm still so shy. I've kissed two girls in my life and they were both EASY. They came up to me and basically just grabbed me to make out at parties.

I really want to get the confidence and learn how to get girls. I'm willing to work hard, just like I did with my body. I'm in this to win!

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm guessing this is you're journal. If so, great start.
A few suggestions: let us know some your interests and hobbies, outline some goals of yours (long-term and short term) and maybe even some things you'd like to improve about yourself (other than general statements, something specific that can be improved).

If this isn't a journal, then just ignore the top and accept my welcome to the SS forums.
 

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No I don't, I know everyone who does though. I wish I did. There's a lot of hot girls there, but I live nowhere near it :(
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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