"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Where to start where to start where to start...

I'm a 16 year old in Perth, Western Australia. I go to high school but I'm on holidays at the moment thank **** for christmas. My family doesn't actually celebrate christmas because we're non-practicing Jews.

When I was in primary school I was the fat kid. Not just a fat kid. I was the one the other heavy kids called fat. As a consequence I became very shy and withdrawn. It was that way into high school until I started going to the gym in year 8 and lost a lot of weight. I trained really hard with a kid in the year above and went from 80+ kilos to 64. I never weighed myself since I was always ashamed to but now I wish I did so I could know the progress I made. Trust me, it's been a lot!

I'm going into year 12 next year. It's my final year! I'm looking forward to making it the best year of my life. I'm 176cm and weigh 75 kilos now, it's mostly muscle. Everyone at school knows me for my abs these days so that's my nick name. Even though I have the body now though I really want to get the girls! I'm still so shy. I've kissed two girls in my life and they were both EASY. They came up to me and basically just grabbed me to make out at parties.

I really want to get the confidence and learn how to get girls. I'm willing to work hard, just like I did with my body. I'm in this to win!

ABSBRO SIGNING IN!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm guessing this is you're journal. If so, great start.
A few suggestions: let us know some your interests and hobbies, outline some goals of yours (long-term and short term) and maybe even some things you'd like to improve about yourself (other than general statements, something specific that can be improved).

If this isn't a journal, then just ignore the top and accept my welcome to the SS forums.
 
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No I don't, I know everyone who does though. I wish I did. There's a lot of hot girls there, but I live nowhere near it :(
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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