I don't understand anything, I think I should go visit a doctor or something. One day my abs show through even without tensing anything up. Then let's say two days later they won't anymore. Then two days after that, they will show again ... wtffffff ? I think the mirror is fvcking with my head or something.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Abs are weird as hell !
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
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Just eat healthy and you won't get any problems with your abs.
Do more cardio and you won't have any problems.
Do more cardio and you won't have any problems.
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I don't know anything about your diet, but my guess would be you've been eating something that makes you retain water more, i.e. bloating. When I eat a bunch of candy I look really fat for a day or so, then it goes away.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It most likely is that water thing, plus you probably have a good but not perfect definition (bodyfat percentage). Its the same with me. Sometimes my abs look pretty good and sometimes after eating or drinking a lot etc. they dont look that good to me anymore. Im pretty sure its just the retained water too in your case.
And yes you should drink lots of water, but I think if u drink lots of water it doesnt really get stored but goes out again right away...and helps keep your system (and piss) clear. If you eat lots of dairy products for example more water will be stored in your body, etc.
(Correctm e if im wrong cause im not completely sure about everything i wrote myself lol)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.