I don't understand anything, I think I should go visit a doctor or something. One day my abs show through even without tensing anything up. Then let's say two days later they won't anymore. Then two days after that, they will show again ... wtffffff ? I think the mirror is fvcking with my head or something.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Abs are weird as hell !
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Slimijs
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Just eat healthy and you won't get any problems with your abs.
Do more cardio and you won't have any problems.
Do more cardio and you won't have any problems.
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I don't know anything about your diet, but my guess would be you've been eating something that makes you retain water more, i.e. bloating. When I eat a bunch of candy I look really fat for a day or so, then it goes away.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
It most likely is that water thing, plus you probably have a good but not perfect definition (bodyfat percentage). Its the same with me. Sometimes my abs look pretty good and sometimes after eating or drinking a lot etc. they dont look that good to me anymore. Im pretty sure its just the retained water too in your case.
And yes you should drink lots of water, but I think if u drink lots of water it doesnt really get stored but goes out again right away...and helps keep your system (and piss) clear. If you eat lots of dairy products for example more water will be stored in your body, etc.
(Correctm e if im wrong cause im not completely sure about everything i wrote myself lol)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.