"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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About not having a gf

Don Juan Wannabe

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Not a big deal just curious as to what you guys think

I have a few girls with I always joke around with in one of my classes. Im a smartass as usual don't take things very seriously. I get along with most of them in that they play along but there is one thing they always hit home with.

Ill say a smartass comment and then they will say "no wonder you don't have a girlfriend or something to that effect" Usually I just ignore the comment and continue doing what I was doing before

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1 Whats a good comeback

2...and because they keep bringing it up are they dropping hints I mean I think a couple of them might be into me
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DontQuitYet

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Don Juan Wannabe said:
2...they keep bringing it up are they dropping hints I mean I think a couple of them might be into me
1.That doesn't sound like a joking thing to say.

2.Most high schoolers are too bent on getting a GF. Having a girlfriend is a very socially validating thing. You don't want a Girlfriend, you want GIRLS.
 

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id have to disagree with you dontquityet, i have girls and its old, hooking up gets old fast. When i first started it was all good but like having a girlfriend is what am after now. Like im not saying just try and get a girlfriend its the only way to go, but hooking up will get boring, it did for me.
 

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Ok, gdi. I can see your views. But this guy(IMO) sounds like he wants the social status of being taken. I'm sick of people going "ah that kids a loser, he doesn't have a GF" to me in class. I just wanna telll them that i hooked up with 2 chicks this weekend. But that'd be bragging. ;)
 

Don Juan Wannabe

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whoa guys wait one minute here don't get me wrong if I met a girl worth my time yah I'd give it a shot but I've learned that girls generally are a waste of time. I got goals in my life and places I want to go. Im more concerned with self improvement right now.

What I was asking was if they were teasing me because they want me but even more so whats a good comeback?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Infraction

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Look, i don't care if the girl i kiss is my gf...
Same goes to you, but you can be C+F about it or just say you are gay.
 

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oh man i luv makin one liners to bust females..n they sometimes just end up gettin frustated n leave but then they cnt control their tantrums nd they return again in a playful moods...i think u shud reply by busting their balls
somethin like:
"oh thnks fr playin my matchmaker..hw abt u being mine?"(make sure u r smiling....!!! nd make sure u keep it as a joke..cuz if dont they'll think uve just said the love word..nd u mught get lucky ;)..both cases u r in a win win situation
 

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oh man i luv makin one liners to bust females..n they sometimes just end up gettin frustated n leave but then they cnt control their tantrums nd they return again in a playful moods...i think u shud reply by busting their balls
somethin like:
"oh thnks fr playin my matchmaker..hw abt u being mine?"(make sure u r smiling....!!! nd make sure u keep it as a joke..cuz if dont they'll think uve just said the love word..nd u mught get lucky ;)..both cases u r in a win win situation
 
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