Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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About not having a gf

Don Juan Wannabe

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Not a big deal just curious as to what you guys think

I have a few girls with I always joke around with in one of my classes. Im a smartass as usual don't take things very seriously. I get along with most of them in that they play along but there is one thing they always hit home with.

Ill say a smartass comment and then they will say "no wonder you don't have a girlfriend or something to that effect" Usually I just ignore the comment and continue doing what I was doing before

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1 Whats a good comeback

2...and because they keep bringing it up are they dropping hints I mean I think a couple of them might be into me
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DontQuitYet

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Don Juan Wannabe said:
2...they keep bringing it up are they dropping hints I mean I think a couple of them might be into me
1.That doesn't sound like a joking thing to say.

2.Most high schoolers are too bent on getting a GF. Having a girlfriend is a very socially validating thing. You don't want a Girlfriend, you want GIRLS.
 

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id have to disagree with you dontquityet, i have girls and its old, hooking up gets old fast. When i first started it was all good but like having a girlfriend is what am after now. Like im not saying just try and get a girlfriend its the only way to go, but hooking up will get boring, it did for me.
 

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Ok, gdi. I can see your views. But this guy(IMO) sounds like he wants the social status of being taken. I'm sick of people going "ah that kids a loser, he doesn't have a GF" to me in class. I just wanna telll them that i hooked up with 2 chicks this weekend. But that'd be bragging. ;)
 

Don Juan Wannabe

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whoa guys wait one minute here don't get me wrong if I met a girl worth my time yah I'd give it a shot but I've learned that girls generally are a waste of time. I got goals in my life and places I want to go. Im more concerned with self improvement right now.

What I was asking was if they were teasing me because they want me but even more so whats a good comeback?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Infraction

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Look, i don't care if the girl i kiss is my gf...
Same goes to you, but you can be C+F about it or just say you are gay.
 

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oh man i luv makin one liners to bust females..n they sometimes just end up gettin frustated n leave but then they cnt control their tantrums nd they return again in a playful moods...i think u shud reply by busting their balls
somethin like:
"oh thnks fr playin my matchmaker..hw abt u being mine?"(make sure u r smiling....!!! nd make sure u keep it as a joke..cuz if dont they'll think uve just said the love word..nd u mught get lucky ;)..both cases u r in a win win situation
 

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oh man i luv makin one liners to bust females..n they sometimes just end up gettin frustated n leave but then they cnt control their tantrums nd they return again in a playful moods...i think u shud reply by busting their balls
somethin like:
"oh thnks fr playin my matchmaker..hw abt u being mine?"(make sure u r smiling....!!! nd make sure u keep it as a joke..cuz if dont they'll think uve just said the love word..nd u mught get lucky ;)..both cases u r in a win win situation
 
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