"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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About not having a gf

Don Juan Wannabe

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Not a big deal just curious as to what you guys think

I have a few girls with I always joke around with in one of my classes. Im a smartass as usual don't take things very seriously. I get along with most of them in that they play along but there is one thing they always hit home with.

Ill say a smartass comment and then they will say "no wonder you don't have a girlfriend or something to that effect" Usually I just ignore the comment and continue doing what I was doing before

Questions
1 Whats a good comeback

2...and because they keep bringing it up are they dropping hints I mean I think a couple of them might be into me
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DontQuitYet

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Don Juan Wannabe said:
2...they keep bringing it up are they dropping hints I mean I think a couple of them might be into me
1.That doesn't sound like a joking thing to say.

2.Most high schoolers are too bent on getting a GF. Having a girlfriend is a very socially validating thing. You don't want a Girlfriend, you want GIRLS.
 

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id have to disagree with you dontquityet, i have girls and its old, hooking up gets old fast. When i first started it was all good but like having a girlfriend is what am after now. Like im not saying just try and get a girlfriend its the only way to go, but hooking up will get boring, it did for me.
 

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Ok, gdi. I can see your views. But this guy(IMO) sounds like he wants the social status of being taken. I'm sick of people going "ah that kids a loser, he doesn't have a GF" to me in class. I just wanna telll them that i hooked up with 2 chicks this weekend. But that'd be bragging. ;)
 

Don Juan Wannabe

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whoa guys wait one minute here don't get me wrong if I met a girl worth my time yah I'd give it a shot but I've learned that girls generally are a waste of time. I got goals in my life and places I want to go. Im more concerned with self improvement right now.

What I was asking was if they were teasing me because they want me but even more so whats a good comeback?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Infraction

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Look, i don't care if the girl i kiss is my gf...
Same goes to you, but you can be C+F about it or just say you are gay.
 

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oh man i luv makin one liners to bust females..n they sometimes just end up gettin frustated n leave but then they cnt control their tantrums nd they return again in a playful moods...i think u shud reply by busting their balls
somethin like:
"oh thnks fr playin my matchmaker..hw abt u being mine?"(make sure u r smiling....!!! nd make sure u keep it as a joke..cuz if dont they'll think uve just said the love word..nd u mught get lucky ;)..both cases u r in a win win situation
 

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oh man i luv makin one liners to bust females..n they sometimes just end up gettin frustated n leave but then they cnt control their tantrums nd they return again in a playful moods...i think u shud reply by busting their balls
somethin like:
"oh thnks fr playin my matchmaker..hw abt u being mine?"(make sure u r smiling....!!! nd make sure u keep it as a joke..cuz if dont they'll think uve just said the love word..nd u mught get lucky ;)..both cases u r in a win win situation
 
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