"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well last night i was wondering, does nlp work in other languages. I mean I'm portugueses and with most people I talk portuguese, now I'm wondering since the way our sentences are arranjed is the whole NLP system just going to be useless if i try to translate it to the closest term that exist in another language?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I've practiced NLP in Italy a few years back and it worked just fine. Do a bit more research on what NLP is really about and you'll find out that it has no direct relation to language. It can easily be used by a practitioner as long as s/he can effectively communicate with their client.
 

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Yeah, I undestand the concern. When I speak in romance languages I find NLP to be less effective. I usually go with TNB or SRG in particularly stressful situations. You may also wanna try URB. But Just watch some MTV on your HDTV while on PCP. The revelations will come to you in an explosion like an RPG used on TNT in the midst of K@zaam DVDs. G2G TTYL
 

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Rex Man said:
Yeah, I undestand the concern. When I speak in romance languages I find NLP to be less effective. I usually go with TNB or SRG in particularly stressful situations. You may also wanna try URB. But Just watch some MTV on your HDTV while on PCP. The revelations will come to you in an explosion like an RPG used on TNT in the midst of K@zaam DVDs. G2G TTYL
the what now?
 

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I personally prefer the NT method, where you JBYS and HANC. It's really simple to do, because it involves no MOM or FP, it's just pure YBY.

Now, if I had to use NLP, I'd probably use it in a way that was more NSO so that I wouldn't FTCO, because that would just result in R. This is a very important thing to remember when doing NLP, and if you don't know this, then don't even attempt it: DCOAACH

If you don't understand these acronyms, don't worry, I wrote a reference booklet on them which I called "The" -- search Google

HTH
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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funny how i think i made an actual valid question and yet you went all on your "hilarious mode".
 

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Tzolking said:
funny how i think i made an actual valid question and yet you went all on your "hilarious mode".
That just how it is around here sometimes :D

BTW, De onde, E mostrar idage porfavor
 

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Dongfu said:
BTW, De onde, E mostrar idage porfavor

LOL. Estou a viver em Lisboa. and the rest of the sentence, well it just made no sense :D
 
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