"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Royal Ace

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Well last night i was wondering, does nlp work in other languages. I mean I'm portugueses and with most people I talk portuguese, now I'm wondering since the way our sentences are arranjed is the whole NLP system just going to be useless if i try to translate it to the closest term that exist in another language?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I've practiced NLP in Italy a few years back and it worked just fine. Do a bit more research on what NLP is really about and you'll find out that it has no direct relation to language. It can easily be used by a practitioner as long as s/he can effectively communicate with their client.
 

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Yeah, I undestand the concern. When I speak in romance languages I find NLP to be less effective. I usually go with TNB or SRG in particularly stressful situations. You may also wanna try URB. But Just watch some MTV on your HDTV while on PCP. The revelations will come to you in an explosion like an RPG used on TNT in the midst of K@zaam DVDs. G2G TTYL
 

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Rex Man said:
Yeah, I undestand the concern. When I speak in romance languages I find NLP to be less effective. I usually go with TNB or SRG in particularly stressful situations. You may also wanna try URB. But Just watch some MTV on your HDTV while on PCP. The revelations will come to you in an explosion like an RPG used on TNT in the midst of K@zaam DVDs. G2G TTYL
the what now?
 

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I personally prefer the NT method, where you JBYS and HANC. It's really simple to do, because it involves no MOM or FP, it's just pure YBY.

Now, if I had to use NLP, I'd probably use it in a way that was more NSO so that I wouldn't FTCO, because that would just result in R. This is a very important thing to remember when doing NLP, and if you don't know this, then don't even attempt it: DCOAACH

If you don't understand these acronyms, don't worry, I wrote a reference booklet on them which I called "The" -- search Google

HTH
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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funny how i think i made an actual valid question and yet you went all on your "hilarious mode".
 

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Tzolking said:
funny how i think i made an actual valid question and yet you went all on your "hilarious mode".
That just how it is around here sometimes :D

BTW, De onde, E mostrar idage porfavor
 

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Dongfu said:
BTW, De onde, E mostrar idage porfavor

LOL. Estou a viver em Lisboa. and the rest of the sentence, well it just made no sense :D
 
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