"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

About NLP?

Royal Ace

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2007
Messages
76
Reaction score
0
Well last night i was wondering, does nlp work in other languages. I mean I'm portugueses and with most people I talk portuguese, now I'm wondering since the way our sentences are arranjed is the whole NLP system just going to be useless if i try to translate it to the closest term that exist in another language?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
I've practiced NLP in Italy a few years back and it worked just fine. Do a bit more research on what NLP is really about and you'll find out that it has no direct relation to language. It can easily be used by a practitioner as long as s/he can effectively communicate with their client.
 

Rex Man

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 18, 2005
Messages
613
Reaction score
2
Location
Midwest
Yeah, I undestand the concern. When I speak in romance languages I find NLP to be less effective. I usually go with TNB or SRG in particularly stressful situations. You may also wanna try URB. But Just watch some MTV on your HDTV while on PCP. The revelations will come to you in an explosion like an RPG used on TNT in the midst of K@zaam DVDs. G2G TTYL
 

Royal Ace

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2007
Messages
76
Reaction score
0
Rex Man said:
Yeah, I undestand the concern. When I speak in romance languages I find NLP to be less effective. I usually go with TNB or SRG in particularly stressful situations. You may also wanna try URB. But Just watch some MTV on your HDTV while on PCP. The revelations will come to you in an explosion like an RPG used on TNT in the midst of K@zaam DVDs. G2G TTYL
the what now?
 

ligyron

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 9, 2007
Messages
74
Reaction score
0
I personally prefer the NT method, where you JBYS and HANC. It's really simple to do, because it involves no MOM or FP, it's just pure YBY.

Now, if I had to use NLP, I'd probably use it in a way that was more NSO so that I wouldn't FTCO, because that would just result in R. This is a very important thing to remember when doing NLP, and if you don't know this, then don't even attempt it: DCOAACH

If you don't understand these acronyms, don't worry, I wrote a reference booklet on them which I called "The" -- search Google

HTH
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Royal Ace

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2007
Messages
76
Reaction score
0
funny how i think i made an actual valid question and yet you went all on your "hilarious mode".
 

Dongfu

Banned
Joined
May 22, 2007
Messages
943
Reaction score
5
Location
Wherever the Dong guides me, but mostly Hawaii
Tzolking said:
funny how i think i made an actual valid question and yet you went all on your "hilarious mode".
That just how it is around here sometimes :D

BTW, De onde, E mostrar idage porfavor
 

Royal Ace

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2007
Messages
76
Reaction score
0
Dongfu said:
BTW, De onde, E mostrar idage porfavor

LOL. Estou a viver em Lisboa. and the rest of the sentence, well it just made no sense :D
 
Top