"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Would saying comments sarcastically like " Boy, that chick over there is hot!" "Damn she's hot!" out loud where everyone including she could hear, would those comments be somewhat ****y and funny? Well I've done it a few times and I've gotten a few smiles and most of the time they blush because i put them in the spotlight out of nowhere which they aren't ready for because everyone else is laughing.

I've noticed that saying such things sarcastically has improved my confidence just a little.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It might work. Some chicks may respond well to that. It'd be a good follow up you walked over there and were all like "Oh my bad, you aren't embarassed or anything are ya? Because if you were, I might just do it again" and then add a joking smirk and maybe a wink. then start the convo
 

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Chicks like hearing they are hot. It shows you have confidence to say things that most other people can't.

Not everything about being a Don Juan is C&F
 

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
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Vincent April Fools Day was last month...
I meant in a situation like he just described. Like if you're driving somewhere or walking and you say it load enough to allow them to hear it, it'll get them flustered.

Remember Confidence is key.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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