"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Would saying comments sarcastically like " Boy, that chick over there is hot!" "Damn she's hot!" out loud where everyone including she could hear, would those comments be somewhat ****y and funny? Well I've done it a few times and I've gotten a few smiles and most of the time they blush because i put them in the spotlight out of nowhere which they aren't ready for because everyone else is laughing.

I've noticed that saying such things sarcastically has improved my confidence just a little.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It might work. Some chicks may respond well to that. It'd be a good follow up you walked over there and were all like "Oh my bad, you aren't embarassed or anything are ya? Because if you were, I might just do it again" and then add a joking smirk and maybe a wink. then start the convo
 

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Chicks like hearing they are hot. It shows you have confidence to say things that most other people can't.

Not everything about being a Don Juan is C&F
 

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
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Vincent April Fools Day was last month...
I meant in a situation like he just described. Like if you're driving somewhere or walking and you say it load enough to allow them to hear it, it'll get them flustered.

Remember Confidence is key.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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