"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Would saying comments sarcastically like " Boy, that chick over there is hot!" "Damn she's hot!" out loud where everyone including she could hear, would those comments be somewhat ****y and funny? Well I've done it a few times and I've gotten a few smiles and most of the time they blush because i put them in the spotlight out of nowhere which they aren't ready for because everyone else is laughing.

I've noticed that saying such things sarcastically has improved my confidence just a little.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It might work. Some chicks may respond well to that. It'd be a good follow up you walked over there and were all like "Oh my bad, you aren't embarassed or anything are ya? Because if you were, I might just do it again" and then add a joking smirk and maybe a wink. then start the convo
 

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Chicks like hearing they are hot. It shows you have confidence to say things that most other people can't.

Not everything about being a Don Juan is C&F
 

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
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Vincent April Fools Day was last month...
I meant in a situation like he just described. Like if you're driving somewhere or walking and you say it load enough to allow them to hear it, it'll get them flustered.

Remember Confidence is key.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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