"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Abercrombie...."dressing nice"

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i like both those shirts... a lot

can you please post the link to where you saw them? (the one doesnt really work when you take out the extra html stuff)

be sure to buy them XL (unless you are small) cause they undersize their shirts big time

i recommend getting at least 1 baby blue (the bright baby blue) collared shirt. I have 2 and EVERYTIME i go out i get at least 1 compliment from a random girl (sometimes even guy friends will say they like the color.. not gay)
 

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i like both shirts.

If you make it look good, then its good. If you make it look gay...well you figure the rest.


here is the second one

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=3904562575&category=57990

another nice one

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=3904567647&category=57990

one more

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=3904701550&category=57990



but...the ending bid is gonna be $30+...so how does that compare to Retail Abercrombie prices?

Im thinking about buying a couple of shirts/shorts for this summer. Lee Dungarees are nice shorts if u dont want to break the bank. As for shirts.... well that's up to u
 

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Both those shirts are REALLY nice they don't look gay one bit.

I dress really nice myself and I get nothing but compliments from girls, alot of the time they are like "omg I just shop at GAP how the hell do you afford $400 sneakers?" and stuff like that. I dress way better than most girls do and I have no problems at all getting girls. I usually just wear some designer jeans and a t-shirt with some nice shoes or some shorts and sandals.

It's not like you have to dress in a suit, you can dress in a shirt and jeans and you pimp as hell it's just what shirt and jeans you buy that makes the difference. Ambercrombi is really low cost clothes but I have to admit they have some nice stuff.

Dressing nice makes a difference and it can help set you apart from other guys since most guys have no idea what nice clothes are.
 

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Hmm... maybe it's not the clothes, idk

I have a 42" chest and 28" waist and I work out alot (and model too for extra cash) so when I wear shirts I usually get medium's so they're a little snug and show off the muscles (because HORNY ass chicks are the ones who like muscles).

So maybe it's the size of shirt I get that's the problem, or maybe its because i look so damn good!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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shiet, how the hell do u afford $400 sneakers?

When are u taking me shopping?
 

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Originally posted by Oxide
shiet, how the hell do u afford $400 sneakers?

When are u taking me shopping?
oxide is a poop head.

lol

but seriously, any more opinions?
 

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Why do you go on auction to buy these shirts? Just go to Abercrombie.com or visit a retailer, they'll have sale racks and plus you actually get to try them on before you buy.
 

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Do not worry about girls thinking you are gay!!!!!!

You make them realize what you are into son enough. Just wear what you think is cool.

Both shirts are o.k.!
 

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I am frequently pegged as gay and it doesn't bother me a lick. Many, many girls I know thought their boyfriends were gay when they first laid eyes on them. Usually based on style of dress, refinement in the way they carried themselves or something like that. But even though the thought may cross their mind when they first look at me, it becomes abundantly clear that I am not once they start to interact with me.

So, don't sweat it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by nan3109
Hmm... maybe it's not the clothes, idk

I have a 42" chest and 28" waist and I work out alot (and model too for extra cash) so when I wear shirts I usually get medium's so they're a little snug and show off the muscles (because HORNY ass chicks are the ones who like muscles).

So maybe it's the size of shirt I get that's the problem, or maybe its because i look so damn good!
i doubt you can fit into the medium sizes... i have a 43'' chest and 32'' waist (workout a lot) and the long sleve muscle T's they have wouldnt even fit me (XL's)... so im assuming these would be undersized as well

i talked to the people working there and they even said the undersize them and they think its to make the young males feel "bigger" cause 90% of the guys who shop there are puny little sh1ts
 

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Originally posted by white_hype
i doubt you can fit into the medium sizes... i have a 43'' chest and 32'' waist (workout a lot) and the long sleve muscle T's they have wouldnt even fit me (XL's)... so im assuming these would be undersized as well

i talked to the people working there and they even said the undersize them and they think its to make the young males feel "bigger" cause 90% of the guys who shop there are puny little sh1ts
so with a 42" chest and 28" waist (15" arms too) what size shirt do you think i should get?
 

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jeez man, i think you're letting this get to you too much about being queer.
those are normal shirts just about any guy wears them

queer ppl like to wear tight cltohing for some reason
 

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Originally posted by nan3109
so with a 42" chest and 28" waist (15" arms too) what size shirt do you think i should get?
XL

but id go to abrecrombie (the actual store) and try on the same "style of shirt (i think its muscle T) to get your sizes down.. otherwise it might not fit and youd end up spending all that shipping/handling (to recieve and return) if not id go with XL
 

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If you dress nice (i.e. Abercrombie, Banana, Armani, Polo, et. al), and a girl thinks you are "gay" because of it. Then its demonstrative of the fact that she has no class. She doesn't have an appreciation for the finer things in life. If a girl doesn't appreciate a man of culture and class, then she has poor taste in men, and lacks class. Although I am not suprised alot of women think like this, because in general, society doesn't have much class.

Find a girl that appreciates that yo azz has class.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i dont think it has anything to do with class.

but there are some women who like the type of guy that has an ungroomed look...like just got out of bed.

wearing jeans, shirt, boots.

some like the more roughed up look and some like the more well groomed, well dressed semi-casual to casual type.

it just depends on their tastes, many of them will have different tastes.

it's almost similar to how some prefer facial hair or clean shaven, everyone has different tastes in a guy
 

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Have you thought about getting a green polo to go under the white polo with the green stripes, then popping both collars up? It's the new A&F look. Definitely go to the store first to make sure that the shirts fit correctly before buying anything off of eBay.
 

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You mean wearing two polos on top of each other? I have to try that.

I think Abercrombie has the best clothes right now, as well as the best women, heh heh. I always go there just to flirt with the women, and I know most of the hot ones by name who work in the store near my house already. Still have to meet one of them who I just saw the other day but didn't have time to chit chat with. I make sure I introduce myself to all of them, because a majority of them are all hot as hell.

Anyways, if you're too big, Abercrombie clothes will look too tight on you. I have a medium athletic build, which I feel is just the right build for these clothes, hence the reason why this is the only store I buy my clothes at. Pretty skinny dudes can also pull off this store's threads, since as mentioned above, the clothes tend to run small. However, the chinos and cargos tend to run 2 sizes bigger than their size indicates.
 

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You need to relax about your clothes man. Those shirts are nowhere close to gay. Abercrombie isn't even nice enough for gay people, I'm pretty sure.

Besides, you could stroll into a party rocking a pink sweater and plaid shorts and do just fine if you have the right attitude. Moral: wear what you like.

BTW- you know you can get shirts that look just like that for less than half of that price, probably. Polo shirts are not an abercrombie invention =)

In stlye-
-E-Z
 

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I don't see how dressing nice is going to make me look "gay." I wear skil shirts and pleated pants and have never gotten that remark from women. Though, I do wear t-shirt and shorts to school sometimes too. So, I keep a vairety.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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