Abercrombie...."dressing nice"

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

becker

Master Don Juan

Mar 28, 2004

well, gay people certainly would wear Abercrombie, although I agree, they usually go for even more expensive stuff, like from Nieman-Marcus.

One time a gay couple went into Abercrombie and bought some of their stuff, like a pink tight t-shirt and stuff. Not recommended for the straight guy, even if you're secure, because in general it looks stupid to be blunt.

The only way to pull off the pink shirt is to have the outlandish personality to go with it. If you're all serious, and not wacky, then it doesn't work.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.