"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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His best move would to take the plea deal right now and serve maybe 20 years, instead of 25 to life. Way. Too. Much. Evidence.
This guy makes OJ Simpson look like Osama Bin Laden.
Edit:
I'll leave this here.
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Honestly I dont see whats wrong to leave un unpleasable situation, if you are sitting at the restaurant terace and a stinky homeless sits on the ground near you, are you gonna stay or you will change your sit?Hustlaz Ambition said:
Or if you are at the garden and mosquitos are storming the place, dont u just go inside?
Anyway if you have to make a point of being biten from mosquitos and get sick or smell pee and sh1t while you eat, then fine to me but it doesnt make sense.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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:crackup: it was a sarcastic joke guys. I had hoped to bait them two toothless hicks, boobs and speed dawg to come in here with that post.
http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/3506907Fatal Jay said:
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White people generally do the smart thing, which is to separate themselves from sh1tballs like Hernandez. Blacks and hispanics hang around and try to fight in the name of some dumb pride for da hood or something and end up getting themselves killed. Natural selection if you ask me.Danger said:
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.