She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Honestly I dont see whats wrong to leave un unpleasable situation, if you are sitting at the restaurant terace and a stinky homeless sits on the ground near you, are you gonna stay or you will change your sit?Hustlaz Ambition said:Aaron Hernandez supposedly was the reason Wes Welker left the Patriots. Straight up made him white flight outta Boston. Something about the "look" in his eyes made him fear for his life. Didn't surprise me when I heard that news. Most whites are straight up scared and SHOOK of Hispanics :nervous:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/3506907Fatal Jay said:Hernandez was on the high totem pole when it came to the drug game. You can tell, they now saying dude was involved in more murders. Most NFL and NBA players are huge funders in the drug game.
White people generally do the smart thing, which is to separate themselves from sh1tballs like Hernandez. Blacks and hispanics hang around and try to fight in the name of some dumb pride for da hood or something and end up getting themselves killed. Natural selection if you ask me.Danger said:Many people prefer to just move away from trash. Most whites just prefer to have their property values go up.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.