"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AAAAAAARGH! Barcelona lost :(

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yay!!!! chelsea won!!! :D
 
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Originally posted by Baruch
how long have you been a chelsea fan...2 years ?


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yes but not just because they are doing so well because i was playing fifa 2004 seeing as my brother is man utd (didnt want to be arsenal because i have somthing against them:p ) i chose chelsea and after being them for so many games over a few years i started suporting them in reality, i think this fact can tell you a lot about making women like you, but i got to figure out what it has to tell you before i post on it!
 
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when i was 9 i started playing and watching football. i watched this team with a bunch of 18 year olds beat top teams in england. and i became their fan. it was ManYoo. Now that I have grown up a little bit, I still like to see them win, but its not the same team that it was built on over the years, so my passion towards them isnt as big when i was a kiddo. I support my local team in israel to the death now.

supporting teams i never went to their match is useless. and just glory hunting imo.

but since you are in england, you may get a chance to watch em. but dont drop the team AFTER abramovich will get arrested for laundering money and the team will sit in deep debts and the bottom of the premiership table :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How was the result? Barcelona 1 x Chelsea 3??

Who scored the goals?
 
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yeh what a match! i was expecting it to be a bore like the 1st one but it sure wasnt.

Chelsea took a 3-0 lead in 20 mins - gudjohnsen, lampard and duff. Everyones like wtf!? The game was virtually over in 20 mins. Then barca got 2 goals just like that! Ronaldinho both of em. Ronaldinhos 2nd goal was amazing! He just stood there doing some weird jingly dance move and then just toe putted it in out of the blue. So yeh barca are so far through on away goals but then terry scores from a corner in the 2nd half.. and barca are out 5-4 on aggregate.
 
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Originally posted by jason86
yeh what a match! i was expecting it to be a bore like the 1st one but it sure wasnt.

Chelsea took a 3-0 lead in 20 mins - gudjohnsen, lampard and duff. Everyones like wtf!? The game was virtually over in 20 mins. Then barca got 2 goals just like that! Ronaldinho both of em. Ronaldinhos 2nd goal was amazing! He just stood there doing some weird jingly dance move and then just toe putted it in out of the blue. So yeh barca are so far through on away goals but then terry scores from a corner in the 2nd half.. and barca are out 5-4 on aggregate.
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That's why I love the Brazilian! :D
 
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Originally posted by Baruch
he is the Brazilian, perhaps the best thing to come out of Brazil since Romario.

Ronaldo was good when he was young, but his injuries and luxurious life kept him from becoming the best.
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What are you talking about"? :D

Yeah, Romario was a monster, but now he's too old to keep playing it. Rivaldo was an excellent player too!

Thanks for the reminder!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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