"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AA another way to look at the problem

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COMFORT ZONE
Everydody got their COMFORT ZONE

If a chick sees you approaching her she ll probably avoid you or she ll pretend to be busy or whatever cos she is not used to talking to strangers !!! all she wants to do is browse in her favorite bookstore , go home email her friends watch her favorite soap on the telly and jerk off in bed
but

if you use surprise the surprise concept she ll have to move out of her comfort zone


in actual fact by breaking into her comfort zone you ll help the chick to bust her shyness
she ll have to react to you !!!!!!

you are such a great guy you ll help her out of her shyness and improve her sex life at the same time
so catch her on the hop , sneakingly from behind and voila



ps please don t call me a troll if you doubt the validity of the above

i m just trying to help you , guys
there is a french proverb that says "le hasard est l ami du timide "
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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IT MEANS
when you shy you are limited to what you can do cos you are shy rite ?
THE ONLY thing that can help you is CHANCE
For instance your arms and hands r loaded with books so you drop them because of the weight some hb sees your plight and helps you pick them off the ground you get talking luck here is the factor that brings you together

hence " chance is shyness best friend " french proverb
 
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