"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AA another way to look at the problem

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COMFORT ZONE
Everydody got their COMFORT ZONE

If a chick sees you approaching her she ll probably avoid you or she ll pretend to be busy or whatever cos she is not used to talking to strangers !!! all she wants to do is browse in her favorite bookstore , go home email her friends watch her favorite soap on the telly and jerk off in bed
but

if you use surprise the surprise concept she ll have to move out of her comfort zone


in actual fact by breaking into her comfort zone you ll help the chick to bust her shyness
she ll have to react to you !!!!!!

you are such a great guy you ll help her out of her shyness and improve her sex life at the same time
so catch her on the hop , sneakingly from behind and voila



ps please don t call me a troll if you doubt the validity of the above

i m just trying to help you , guys
there is a french proverb that says "le hasard est l ami du timide "
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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IT MEANS
when you shy you are limited to what you can do cos you are shy rite ?
THE ONLY thing that can help you is CHANCE
For instance your arms and hands r loaded with books so you drop them because of the weight some hb sees your plight and helps you pick them off the ground you get talking luck here is the factor that brings you together

hence " chance is shyness best friend " french proverb
 
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