"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AA another way to look at the problem

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COMFORT ZONE
Everydody got their COMFORT ZONE

If a chick sees you approaching her she ll probably avoid you or she ll pretend to be busy or whatever cos she is not used to talking to strangers !!! all she wants to do is browse in her favorite bookstore , go home email her friends watch her favorite soap on the telly and jerk off in bed
but

if you use surprise the surprise concept she ll have to move out of her comfort zone


in actual fact by breaking into her comfort zone you ll help the chick to bust her shyness
she ll have to react to you !!!!!!

you are such a great guy you ll help her out of her shyness and improve her sex life at the same time
so catch her on the hop , sneakingly from behind and voila



ps please don t call me a troll if you doubt the validity of the above

i m just trying to help you , guys
there is a french proverb that says "le hasard est l ami du timide "
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IT MEANS
when you shy you are limited to what you can do cos you are shy rite ?
THE ONLY thing that can help you is CHANCE
For instance your arms and hands r loaded with books so you drop them because of the weight some hb sees your plight and helps you pick them off the ground you get talking luck here is the factor that brings you together

hence " chance is shyness best friend " french proverb
 
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