A woman's perspective [Mod: Moved from MM]

[AAAgent]

Did you actually have a question you were asking or was your post just a statement that you felt like re-iterating.

Your conception of a DJ is being mis-represented. A DJ is all those things you mentioned, and as such a player does have DJ traits but is not a DJ. Like all the noobies, read the DJ Bible.

I agree with Rollo, there seems to been sh1tload of guys responding already making attempts at validation. Even some vets which is sad. If you want help, ask for it. Don't come here seeking attention otherwise you're no different from a troll.

 

[Zunder]

I regretted the earlier post that I have deleted. It was posted after drinking 4 gallons of red wine. I was completely surprised when I read what I posted and know it was all bullsh*t.

Zunder, I no longer powerlift these days but hope to get back into training soon.

Powerlifter

Yes well get back into it, there is nothing like lifting iron for the heart mind and soul.

 

[perseverance]

You're right, talk is cheap and meaningless.
That's why you have to go by actions, not words.

That's exactly what I mean, what someone says to you isn't worth worrying about, it's what they do that counts.

So many women say they aren't "sluts" but their actions suggest the polar opposite.

 

[zekko]

It's funny how a post like this provokes all these desperate grasps at validating an idealization. Even an obvious troll post meant to prompt an 'exception to the rule' discussion makes you want to believe that the fantasy could be true.

I don't see jafyk or anybody else here suggesting that the OP is an "idealization" except you. Straw man. No one here is regarding the OP as a "fantasy" either. She's some 21 year old girl who decided to post on a message board.

Some people chose to engage her as a person instead of an enemy, and respond to what she said instead of her gender. Doing that instead of immediately flaming her because she is a woman constitutes a "white knight"? I don't know anyone who acts like this in real life.
Seriously, what the hell is wrong with you people?

She wasn't telling us what to do, she just offered her perceptions. Apparently some people are very frightened when they encounter an opinion that differs from their own.

Her problem is obviously that she stumbled into the all male "He-man Woman Hater's Club", because there was nothing that she said that should have provoked such a reaction. If women aren't welcome to post here, fine. Put it in the FAQ, so you can at least be honest about it.

 

[Powerlifter]

Rollo, I never would have thought that with David. Just never know about it. Thanks for sharing that, what a total surprise or is it?

Powerlifter.

I think you have me confused with this guy:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=188618

Post #25

 

[Powerlifter]

I definitely agree Zunder, I miss the iron.

Powerlifter

Yes well get back into it, there is nothing like lifting iron for the heart mind and soul.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

I don't see jafyk or anybody else here suggesting that the OP is an "idealization" except you. Straw man. No one here is regarding the OP as a "fantasy" either. She's some 21 year old girl who decided to post on a message board.

Some people chose to engage her as a person instead of an enemy, and respond to what she said instead of her gender. Doing that instead of immediately flaming her because she is a woman constitutes a "white knight"? I don't know anyone who acts like this in real life.
Seriously, what the hell is wrong with you people?

She wasn't telling us what to do, she just offered her perceptions. Apparently some people are very frightened when they encounter an opinion that differs from their own.

Her problem is obviously that she stumbled into the all male "He-man Woman Hater's Club", because there was nothing that she said that should have provoked such a reaction. If women aren't welcome to post here, fine. Put it in the FAQ, so you can at least be honest about it.

Spot on, man. I am in your camp. She said nothing from what I read that should have brought about that sort of animosity. It isn't hard to see who has their backs up about women, who's good at calling out some flaws in her statements (though, this is one woman's opinion; and she is entitled to it) and then a few of us that just take it for what it's worth, offer up our own points of view based on OUR OWN experiences and leave it at that.

I'm quite surprised and, frankly, disappointed by some of the remarks some of these "don juans" conjured up. Have a bit of class, guys. I'd say some of you have some hot buttons and issues with women that you really need to sort out.

She's a girl who offered up her own view of things. She's neither right or wrong. You can disagree or look for merit in some of her points and reply with your stance and your reasons for it.

 

[metoo]

If she's just now entering med school, it will be 6 years or more before she makes a dime, then a couple-3 years of paying off the loans she had to take out to get thru all her training. Until then, she will HAVE no life, as such. You want to wait on all that? Sheesh.

 

[Huffman]

I know that "good girls" aren't the type discussed on this site much

You'd be surprised. This is what people call "girlfriend material" on here. So while we want to sleep with as many girls as possible, only few girls can make the cut to be a true "partner"... or maybe I'm meeting the wrong people

Also I must confess I once dumped a girl who was saving herself for marriage. I didn't do it because of the sex I wasn't getting. But it somehow means that as soon as you're together, you're heading straight down the move-together-marry-have-kids-game-over lane. This is what truly scared me. You have all the chores and responsibilities, but without any of the fun. She was really awesome, and I regretted it, but I turned her down.

P.S. HOLY WEINERFEST BATMAN i didn't realize this has already 6 pages

 

[Zunder]

Her problem is obviously that she stumbled into the all male "He-man Woman Hater's Club", because there was nothing that she said that should have provoked such a reaction. If women aren't welcome to post here, fine. Put it in the FAQ, so you can at least be honest about it.

There you go - making ridiculous generalisations. Her sex is not the issue, its the post and the words contained therein - wake the fvck up.

 

[Tazman]

Lets see...

1.) She's not like other girls, a diamond in the rough.

2.) She's sad because low SMV males can't get laid by hot chicks.

3.) In all of her 21 years she has extensive knowledge she can pass down to "mature men".

4.) She knows the biggest issue men here have is finding too many "good girls", not enough bad girls to go around.

5.) She's turned off by players (see bullet point 1).

You know what, I could actually believe how she has represented herself.......if I could see a picture that is.

 

[Powerlifter]

Danger, just for the record sis. Everyone here knows the only thing you have ever screwed is your own butt with your weekly visits to the supermaket to get some different size cucumbers to try on that butt of yours.

Powerlifter

Soooo.....if you find that Rollo's posts are articulate and make sense then.....you must be gay.

Hmmm, can't argue with that logic.

 

[Desdinova]

The flinging of 5hit has begun. NOW it's time to close this thread.