frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
its funny that your insecure enuf to call me a chubby bald midget.
thats cute!
I think im ur man crush
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
a wierd tip on the Coffee date
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its funny that your insecure enuf to call me a chubby bald midget.
thats cute!
I think im ur man crush
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
The coffe thing is so true, especially when you've already had like 4-6 that day. My hands were shaking crazy but I didn't come off nervous sice I hid it well.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
They make decafinated coffee for a reason y'know...
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
Yeah, I know. The one with caffeine's there for a reason too
sparky1981
Don Juan
U know this is just a theory but maybe try getting off the energy pills. Its probaly quite normal to be a little nervous when you first meet or go out with a chick as well though.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeah, those shaky hands look good on 'ya.Originally posted by Dysfunctional
Yeah, I know. The one with caffeine's there for a reason too
DJHoolahoop
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btw, cafe's are just as good. They don't gotta be star bucks or random coffee houses. Find a nice cafe and you'll find that it's a great atmosphere plus most places have a wide variety of things. Most being decently priced too. I have my choice of many and I can grab a bite for roughly 5 bux. Not bad, especially when most fast food joints charge the same price for way crappier quality and shyttier service.
and for those who are interested in trying this new fad called "drinking water", most places give glasses of it for FREE. Can you believe it? Who would have thought! And what's that? It's the best drink for you? GET OUT!
and for those who are interested in trying this new fad called "drinking water", most places give glasses of it for FREE. Can you believe it? Who would have thought! And what's that? It's the best drink for you? GET OUT!