frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
its funny that your insecure enuf to call me a chubby bald midget.
thats cute!
I think im ur man crush
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
a wierd tip on the Coffee date
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its funny that your insecure enuf to call me a chubby bald midget.
thats cute!
I think im ur man crush
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
The coffe thing is so true, especially when you've already had like 4-6 that day. My hands were shaking crazy but I didn't come off nervous sice I hid it well.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
They make decafinated coffee for a reason y'know...
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
Yeah, I know. The one with caffeine's there for a reason too
sparky1981
Don Juan
U know this is just a theory but maybe try getting off the energy pills. Its probaly quite normal to be a little nervous when you first meet or go out with a chick as well though.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeah, those shaky hands look good on 'ya.Originally posted by Dysfunctional
Yeah, I know. The one with caffeine's there for a reason too
DJHoolahoop
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btw, cafe's are just as good. They don't gotta be star bucks or random coffee houses. Find a nice cafe and you'll find that it's a great atmosphere plus most places have a wide variety of things. Most being decently priced too. I have my choice of many and I can grab a bite for roughly 5 bux. Not bad, especially when most fast food joints charge the same price for way crappier quality and shyttier service.
and for those who are interested in trying this new fad called "drinking water", most places give glasses of it for FREE. Can you believe it? Who would have thought! And what's that? It's the best drink for you? GET OUT!
and for those who are interested in trying this new fad called "drinking water", most places give glasses of it for FREE. Can you believe it? Who would have thought! And what's that? It's the best drink for you? GET OUT!