frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
its funny that your insecure enuf to call me a chubby bald midget.
thats cute!
I think im ur man crush
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
a wierd tip on the Coffee date
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its funny that your insecure enuf to call me a chubby bald midget.
thats cute!
I think im ur man crush
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
The coffe thing is so true, especially when you've already had like 4-6 that day. My hands were shaking crazy but I didn't come off nervous sice I hid it well.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
They make decafinated coffee for a reason y'know...
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
Yeah, I know. The one with caffeine's there for a reason too
sparky1981
Don Juan
U know this is just a theory but maybe try getting off the energy pills. Its probaly quite normal to be a little nervous when you first meet or go out with a chick as well though.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeah, those shaky hands look good on 'ya.Originally posted by Dysfunctional
Yeah, I know. The one with caffeine's there for a reason too
DJHoolahoop
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btw, cafe's are just as good. They don't gotta be star bucks or random coffee houses. Find a nice cafe and you'll find that it's a great atmosphere plus most places have a wide variety of things. Most being decently priced too. I have my choice of many and I can grab a bite for roughly 5 bux. Not bad, especially when most fast food joints charge the same price for way crappier quality and shyttier service.
and for those who are interested in trying this new fad called "drinking water", most places give glasses of it for FREE. Can you believe it? Who would have thought! And what's that? It's the best drink for you? GET OUT!
and for those who are interested in trying this new fad called "drinking water", most places give glasses of it for FREE. Can you believe it? Who would have thought! And what's that? It's the best drink for you? GET OUT!