frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
its funny that your insecure enuf to call me a chubby bald midget.
thats cute!
I think im ur man crush
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
a wierd tip on the Coffee date
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its funny that your insecure enuf to call me a chubby bald midget.
thats cute!
I think im ur man crush
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
The coffe thing is so true, especially when you've already had like 4-6 that day. My hands were shaking crazy but I didn't come off nervous sice I hid it well.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
They make decafinated coffee for a reason y'know...
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
Yeah, I know. The one with caffeine's there for a reason too
sparky1981
Don Juan
U know this is just a theory but maybe try getting off the energy pills. Its probaly quite normal to be a little nervous when you first meet or go out with a chick as well though.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeah, those shaky hands look good on 'ya.Originally posted by Dysfunctional
Yeah, I know. The one with caffeine's there for a reason too
DJHoolahoop
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btw, cafe's are just as good. They don't gotta be star bucks or random coffee houses. Find a nice cafe and you'll find that it's a great atmosphere plus most places have a wide variety of things. Most being decently priced too. I have my choice of many and I can grab a bite for roughly 5 bux. Not bad, especially when most fast food joints charge the same price for way crappier quality and shyttier service.
and for those who are interested in trying this new fad called "drinking water", most places give glasses of it for FREE. Can you believe it? Who would have thought! And what's that? It's the best drink for you? GET OUT!
and for those who are interested in trying this new fad called "drinking water", most places give glasses of it for FREE. Can you believe it? Who would have thought! And what's that? It's the best drink for you? GET OUT!