"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A WEEK TO REMEMBER

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People i need help...
here's the problem the "Girl of my dreams" has a new boyfriend. their relationship just started recently. school year's about to end. her boyfriend graduating and will surely move to another school after graduating. Our class will have a farewell party next week and because of the fact that her bf is moving to another school, I'm thinking of confessing my feeling for her during the party but I wont make it official It'll be only between me and her.

should I do it so that before the next school year started we'll be having our own Relationship?

or should I not and respect her relationship with her bf?
who knows her BF might still visit her from time to time....

HELP I ONLY HAVE A WEEK TO DECIDE
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Supero Masculus

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OK first, you need to ask a question in a question post. got that? good. Seconf your gonna have to give a heck of a lot more information than that to get any helpful replies.
 

WhAcKeD!

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Dude, speeking from personal experience never EVER tell a girl how you feel about her, if I were you get to know her, do things with her, then cut off all contact with her, shell be wondering wtf is going on, DONT TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER.
 

Sammo

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Go to the party, hook up with 10 other girls in front of her, stop thinking about her you *****, think about yourself and how much fun you can have at this party.

She isn't the girl of your dreams, shes a girl that has to go to the toilet and take a **** just like you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NYC Dude

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Confessing your feelings like that doesn't work. One of my friends (and competition for this one girl) did that the other year, she told him that she "Didn't have feelings like that" towards him. Then it was I that ended up with her, not him. My advice to you is the same as Sammo's, she isn't the ****ing girl of your dreams. She's just like any other, and definately not the best looking one around. Go to the party, forget about her, and have a good time.
 

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
My advice to you is the same as Sammo's, she isn't the ****ing girl of your dreams. She's just like any other, and definately not the best looking one around. Go to the party, forget about her, and have a good time.
Yep this man be speaking the truth ;) .
 

LikRetsam

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I don't see how your title has anything to do with your post.

Forget her.
 

Supero Masculus

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Can i hear a "NEXT!!" coming on? Yes, i can hear it now! "NEXT!":D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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