"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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A WEEK TO REMEMBER

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People i need help...
here's the problem the "Girl of my dreams" has a new boyfriend. their relationship just started recently. school year's about to end. her boyfriend graduating and will surely move to another school after graduating. Our class will have a farewell party next week and because of the fact that her bf is moving to another school, I'm thinking of confessing my feeling for her during the party but I wont make it official It'll be only between me and her.

should I do it so that before the next school year started we'll be having our own Relationship?

or should I not and respect her relationship with her bf?
who knows her BF might still visit her from time to time....

HELP I ONLY HAVE A WEEK TO DECIDE
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OK first, you need to ask a question in a question post. got that? good. Seconf your gonna have to give a heck of a lot more information than that to get any helpful replies.
 
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WhAcKeD!

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Dude, speeking from personal experience never EVER tell a girl how you feel about her, if I were you get to know her, do things with her, then cut off all contact with her, shell be wondering wtf is going on, DONT TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER.
 
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Go to the party, hook up with 10 other girls in front of her, stop thinking about her you *****, think about yourself and how much fun you can have at this party.

She isn't the girl of your dreams, shes a girl that has to go to the toilet and take a **** just like you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Confessing your feelings like that doesn't work. One of my friends (and competition for this one girl) did that the other year, she told him that she "Didn't have feelings like that" towards him. Then it was I that ended up with her, not him. My advice to you is the same as Sammo's, she isn't the ****ing girl of your dreams. She's just like any other, and definately not the best looking one around. Go to the party, forget about her, and have a good time.
 
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Originally posted by NYC Dude
My advice to you is the same as Sammo's, she isn't the ****ing girl of your dreams. She's just like any other, and definately not the best looking one around. Go to the party, forget about her, and have a good time.
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Yep this man be speaking the truth ;) .
 
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I don't see how your title has anything to do with your post.

Forget her.
 
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Can i hear a "NEXT!!" coming on? Yes, i can hear it now! "NEXT!":D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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