"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A WEEK TO REMEMBER

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People i need help...
here's the problem the "Girl of my dreams" has a new boyfriend. their relationship just started recently. school year's about to end. her boyfriend graduating and will surely move to another school after graduating. Our class will have a farewell party next week and because of the fact that her bf is moving to another school, I'm thinking of confessing my feeling for her during the party but I wont make it official It'll be only between me and her.

should I do it so that before the next school year started we'll be having our own Relationship?

or should I not and respect her relationship with her bf?
who knows her BF might still visit her from time to time....

HELP I ONLY HAVE A WEEK TO DECIDE
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Supero Masculus

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OK first, you need to ask a question in a question post. got that? good. Seconf your gonna have to give a heck of a lot more information than that to get any helpful replies.
 

WhAcKeD!

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Dude, speeking from personal experience never EVER tell a girl how you feel about her, if I were you get to know her, do things with her, then cut off all contact with her, shell be wondering wtf is going on, DONT TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER.
 

Sammo

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Go to the party, hook up with 10 other girls in front of her, stop thinking about her you *****, think about yourself and how much fun you can have at this party.

She isn't the girl of your dreams, shes a girl that has to go to the toilet and take a **** just like you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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NYC Dude

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Confessing your feelings like that doesn't work. One of my friends (and competition for this one girl) did that the other year, she told him that she "Didn't have feelings like that" towards him. Then it was I that ended up with her, not him. My advice to you is the same as Sammo's, she isn't the ****ing girl of your dreams. She's just like any other, and definately not the best looking one around. Go to the party, forget about her, and have a good time.
 

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
My advice to you is the same as Sammo's, she isn't the ****ing girl of your dreams. She's just like any other, and definately not the best looking one around. Go to the party, forget about her, and have a good time.
Yep this man be speaking the truth ;) .
 

LikRetsam

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I don't see how your title has anything to do with your post.

Forget her.
 

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Can i hear a "NEXT!!" coming on? Yes, i can hear it now! "NEXT!":D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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