"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A way to star chat/hit on a barmaid

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So i came up with this idea. Tell me what you think??

You gotta be cute though for it to work I reckkon.\


So, yo go up to the barmaid and instead off asking for xxxx drink you say one off ollowing type things.

''so, what do you think I should order?''

''So, what do you want to sell me?''

etc..but you smile and laugh kinda thing.


what ya reckon?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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joverby

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She'll probably think your a undecisive girl who needs a woman to order drinks for him.
 
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joverby said:
She'll probably think your a undecisive girl who needs a woman to order drinks for him.

But you say it with a joke and a smile so she knows your not being serious with it just a a way to start a convo etc

You dont literally act as if yo are being serious lol

or the ''what do you want to sell me'' one is better then because then you are being funny smart but and not indecsive
 

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"What do you think I should order" would work. It's a stupid enough question so that she knows what you want immediately, if said with a smile.
 
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