"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A way to star chat/hit on a barmaid

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So i came up with this idea. Tell me what you think??

You gotta be cute though for it to work I reckkon.\


So, yo go up to the barmaid and instead off asking for xxxx drink you say one off ollowing type things.

''so, what do you think I should order?''

''So, what do you want to sell me?''

etc..but you smile and laugh kinda thing.


what ya reckon?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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joverby

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She'll probably think your a undecisive girl who needs a woman to order drinks for him.
 
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joverby said:
She'll probably think your a undecisive girl who needs a woman to order drinks for him.

But you say it with a joke and a smile so she knows your not being serious with it just a a way to start a convo etc

You dont literally act as if yo are being serious lol

or the ''what do you want to sell me'' one is better then because then you are being funny smart but and not indecsive
 

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"What do you think I should order" would work. It's a stupid enough question so that she knows what you want immediately, if said with a smile.
 
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