"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A way to star chat/hit on a barmaid

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donnyjondeppjuando

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So i came up with this idea. Tell me what you think??

You gotta be cute though for it to work I reckkon.\


So, yo go up to the barmaid and instead off asking for xxxx drink you say one off ollowing type things.

''so, what do you think I should order?''

''So, what do you want to sell me?''

etc..but you smile and laugh kinda thing.


what ya reckon?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She'll probably think your a undecisive girl who needs a woman to order drinks for him.
 
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donnyjondeppjuando

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joverby said:
She'll probably think your a undecisive girl who needs a woman to order drinks for him.
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But you say it with a joke and a smile so she knows your not being serious with it just a a way to start a convo etc

You dont literally act as if yo are being serious lol

or the ''what do you want to sell me'' one is better then because then you are being funny smart but and not indecsive
 
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"What do you think I should order" would work. It's a stupid enough question so that she knows what you want immediately, if said with a smile.
 
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