"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This kind of thing has been posted before, but as soon as it happened to me it became a good idea for me to come and warn you guys about it yet again.

I just knocked up my girlfriend. For some reason guys think it won't happen to them, they think those bad things wont happen to them, well... they do. If you have sex without a condom (even if its just foreplay, like i did), you WILL eventually knock her up, and it is a terrible thing. It is 10 times worse then you could ever imagine. Especially with a dad who trusted we werent having sex.

Even in foreplay you still *** a little bit, so DO NOT do it, always put a condom on no matter how strong the temptation. Also, make sure you use lubricant and a proper fitting condom so it doesnt break. So learn from my mistakes and the other unfortunate souls mistakes who have also experienced this.

Remember, you are NOT impervious to these circumstances. You are not invincible.

So from now on, i will wear sunscreen in the sun, and i will always use a condom.

P.S. For anyone that was interested, she did get the abortion of course but it was a horrible experience.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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im sorry
 
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that sucks lil dude.

While I agree with your advice, I gotta say I go raw doggy on all my LTRs (after they get tested of course) and have yet to have this happen. Then again, mebbe my sperms are terrible swimmers!

Anyway, sounds like you got a good head on ya shoulders. Keep it up!
 
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Sorry man but at least you learned a lesson
 
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Am i the only one that got the irony of your sig with this sammo, im sorry, but re read your sig and think of it laterally.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Don Ronny
While I agree with your advice, I gotta say I go raw doggy on all my LTRs (after they get tested of course) and have yet to have this happen. Then again, mebbe my sperms are terrible swimmers!
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Thats a gamble you might not want to take.

That sucks sammo, just outa curiosity, what do you feel about the abortion? like were you for it, or did you let her decide?
 
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Originally posted by Don Ronny
that sucks lil dude.

While I agree with your advice, I gotta say I go raw doggy on all my LTRs (after they get tested of course) and have yet to have this happen. Then again, mebbe my sperms are terrible swimmers!

Anyway, sounds like you got a good head on ya shoulders. Keep it up!
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Yeah thats what i thought as well, but then i did. Dont make the same mistake as me man.

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That sucks sammo, just outa curiosity, what do you feel about the abortion? like were you for it, or did you let her decide?
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I was definatelly for it. A kid at 16 is a good way of messing your life up. We had both agreed that she would go abortion if it ever did happen, so there wasn't any controversy between us.
 
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i will wear sunscreen in the sun,
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I'll never do that...causes cancer
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yeah dude, I feel your pain. I had a pregnancy scare a few months ago, and it sucked hardcore. I've always hated condoms, but now I always wrap it up anyway because I remember that horrible experience.

-Dan
 
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I hear you Superman... in my case her period was a week late, and I was almost crying like a four year old... and we used a condom. Now, they are not the best creation on the planet... but I would be damned if I do it without one.

Sorry to hear about that Sammo... you guys may want to discuss getting her on the pill as well. Good luck man... keep your head up.
 
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Reminds me of a saying: Use a wrapper when you pack her.

Went bareback once with an ex...Was breathing into a paper bag for a few weeks after that. Not worth the trouble. Don't trust the pill 100% either, everything has error (except abstinence, but where's the fun in that? ;) )
 
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put this in the dj highschool bible moderators

sorry sammo, that sucks dude.
 
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yheh i recommend getting her on the pill AND using a rubber
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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